Keep on talking

I have a problem

OK, I admit to at least this one!

Once I get in the mood to talk, I will not stop. It is not like I know that I should stop, I just do not want to! I can see the look in the persons eyes when I continue on with my stories. They wished they never asked me that question! I am sure you have been in these spots, at least a few times in your life! I do not always feel like talking. Most of the time I just like to be left alone so I can just do what I feel like. I love yoga and meditation. I do not like to do this in a group setting. I do not want to be around others often. I know that this must  sound crazy to you, but it is just normal for me. Always has been, and always will be. So, if you happen to see me or come over to my house, please be warned. lol

I hope you can also always say what you are feeling to others and always have an empathetic ear or two around. Hope you keep the faith!

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

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Hope you are all well and happy. I sure am. My son who moved to Texas is back home. All is good. He will be starting a new job here. I am soooo happy! I hope you all find peace and happiness in your life. Be sure to vote. You matter!

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

QUOTES worth reading…from my friend, LVISS*

Shall I put a few fantastic quotes ,which I came across , from my side , .

The road to success is always under construction
Every one wants to go to heaven but nobody wants to die
He who laughs last didnt get it
Never take life seriously, nobody gets out alive anyway-

Everybody has photographic memory but few have films in it-
Marriage is give and take,Better give ,she will take it anyway.

Dont be pushed by your problems be led by your dreams–

TODAY IS THE YESTERDAY YOU WORRIED ABOUT TOMORROW –HAVE A WORRY FREE LIFE–

Thank you Lviss for sending these very inspirational quotes to me all the way from India. Stay well and happy.

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

I’M SICK OF IT…..a series of thoughts/questions I have …..4/30/12

I wish people would quit justifying marital affairs. Either you had an affair or you did not have an affair, right?

I am amazed at how people try to talk themselves out of situations they put themselves in. I mean, it is clear to me that the answer should be YES, I did or NO, I did not. Fess up and just get on with things. I believe if a relationship is so bad that you have to have an affair to make yourself feel better, FIRST, get a divorce or go to get help. If you do not think that your marriage can be saved, then end it. Simple as that. I do not believe that you need to involve innocent parties in your situation. I don’t know, you may not agree…but, this is MY opinion. Thanks for visiting.

Oh, by the way…I have been happily married since 1984.

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

I’M SICK OF IT…..a series of thoughts/questions I have …..4/12/12

This next thought relates to all of you. When it comes to men and women understanding one another, you have to admit that things do get weird at times. I am not talking about every aspect of relationships. That would be something I could write a book about. lol I am referring to the way that men and women communicate. Maybe I should have said the way they DO NOT communicate. lol Here is my thought.

Why do men and women speak different languages and have failure in communicating what the heck they are trying to say?

I believe that unless you happen to actually speak different languages, there should not be such a struggle. lol I believe part of the reason is because men tend to “think about” what they are going to say and women just “say it!”I kind of like the “just say it” better. The reason is, I am speaking from the emotions I am feeling at that particular time and the other person should be able to recognize them. (Of course, this is not always the case.) Men who sit there and have that puzzled look on their face because they do not know what to say without the fear of being yelled at, I tend to feel sorry for. A man should be able to express his emotions as well and the other party should be sensitive to them. I always take a breath and smile before I answer my hubby. That helps me to observe. It helps me to respond in a positive way instead of saying things like, :What an a**hole!” lol

There always tends to be an underlying situation brewing in the other person that makes them say and do what they say and do. Be aware of that. Be sensitive of that. Do not just “look” for a reason to get into a fight. Look for a reason to show “love to one another.”

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

What we do is what we do when we do no other…..

That just popped into my head.

What does it mean to you?

Believe in Yourself;

Luisa Doraz

Friends in Life……LAUGH with DORAZ*

Thought for the day:

Women are angels. And when someone breaks our wings,

we simply continue to fly…on a broomstick.

We are flexible like that.

A husband read an article to his wife about how many words women use a day…

30,000 to a man’s 15,000.

The wife replied, ‘The reason has to be because we have to repeat everything to men…..

The husband then turned to his wife and asked, ‘What?’

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A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE…
One friend who
Always makes her Laugh…
And one
Who lets her cry…

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HOW OFTEN DO YOU GET TO SPEND TIME WITH YOUR “LONGTIME” FRIENDS?
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CONTRIBUTED by:KRISTI KEYPERS

LAUGH with DORAZ……Anniversary Fun*

During their silver anniversary, a wife reminds her husband “Do you remember when you proposed to me? I was so overwhelmed that I didn’t talk for an hour.” The husband replies “Yes, honey, that was the happiest hour of my life.

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A couple were celebrating their Golden Wedding anniversary. Their domestic tranquility had long been the talk of the town. A local newspaper reporter was inquiring as to the secret of the long and happy marriage. ‘Well, it dates back to our honeymoon,’ explained the husband. ‘We visited the Grand Canyon and took at trip down to the bottom of the canyon by pack mule. We hadn’t gone too far when my wife’s mule stumbled. My wife quietly said, “That’s once.” We proceeded a little further when the mule stumbled again. Once more my wife quietly said, “That’s twice.” We hadn’t gone half a mile when the mule stumbled a third time. My wife took a pistol out of her pocket and shot the mule. ‘I started to protest over her treatment of the mule when she looked at me and quietly said, “That’s once.”

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Jamie asks his wife, Julie, what she wants to celebrate their 25th wedding anniversary. “Would you like a new mink coat?” he asks. “Not really,” says Julie. “Well how about a new Mercedes sports car?” says Jamie. “No,” she responds. “What about a new vacation home in the country?” he suggests. She again rejects his offer with a “No thanks.” “Well what would you like for your anniversary?” Jamie asks. “Jamie, I’d like a divorce,” answers Julie. “Sorry, I wasn’t planning to spend that much,” says Jamie.

LAUGH with DORAZ….FISHING, ANYONE?

This is too funny!!!

A husband and wife went in for counseling after 15 years of
marriage.

When asked what the problem was, the wife went into a
passionate, painful
outburst listing every problem they had ever had in the 15
years they had
been married. She went on and on and on: neglect, lack of

intimacy, emptiness, loneliness, feeling unloved and unlovable, an
entire laundry list
of un-met needs she had endured over the course of their
marriage.

Finally, after allowing this to go on for a sufficient
length of time, The
therapist got up, walked around the desk and, after asking
the wife to
stand, embraced and kissed her passionately. The woman shut
up and quietly
sat down as though in a daze.

The therapist turned to the husband and said, “This is
what your wife needs
at least three times a week. Can you do this?”

The husband thought for a moment and replied,.. ‘Well,
I can drop her off
here on Mondays and Wednesdays, but on Fridays, I
fish.”

LOVE & MARRIAGE*

ME AND MY DOG…..GINGER*

ME GETTING READY*

MY ANNIVERSARY IS JUST AROUND THE CORNER……GUESS HOW MANY YEARS THIS CRAZY LADY HAS BEEN MARRIED?

SPECIAL FLOWERS FOR THE WINNER………….