I Can’t Stand My Boss!

 

Well, get rid of em! Are they doing a good job as your boss? Are they making money for the company you work for? Are they just sitting around drinking coffee all day and pretending to be working? Are they actually good at what they do? Well, if you answered yes to these questions, you had better start looking for another job! Either that, or you need to sit down with your boss and come to some terms about issues you have with them! If your boss is not doing their job and not pulling their weight, keep in mind that they also have a boss ( unless they own the company) and you can talk to their superior. Make sure you try working it out with your boss first because their superior do not like when employees go behind their immediate supervisors back!  Just be sure to do something! Do not keep going into a job you do not like! This will lead to a lot of health problems for you! Everything has a solution. Figure it out. You can do it! Believe in Yourself! In the course of my employment, I have had several supervisors fired! If you do not do the job, you should not be there, right? I did nothing wrong, they did!

“Smile”.It Works Better….

No matter what you say to me, when you ” smile” things do not look so bad. I think the natural response a person should have to anything that is said to them by anyone, should be a ” smile.” Even if the person is yelling at you for something you did that they did not like, look right at them before you speak…and ” smile.” It will start to get the other person less agitated with you…believe me, it works! Resist the urge to yell back at the person. Stop…reflex, and “smile” before you answer them. Keep your voice level set to about a 4 not a 10. If you respond with a calm voice, it also will calm down the other person. Believe me, it works. People do not like to have to raise their blood pressure if they do not have to. They prefer to be cool, calm, and collected. So, give it a try. What have you got to lose. Change the mix when you deal with someone. Do not let them see a ” smile” coming their way! Surprise them!

Believe in Yourself;
Dorazl