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Gimme Some Lovin’….or Sex?????

Sex and Love are two different things. Sex does not become love until you invest some time and emotions in a relationship. Anyone can go out tonight and have sex. Don’t think if you go out tonight, find someone, and have sex, that you are in a love relationship.
You can not seriously believe that you are so deeply attached to this person that you can actually “ Love” them. You may be attracted to a lot of their physical features that you find attractive and love. You may be attracted to some emotional qualities this person has, but that is what you love about them. You may be thinking the person thinks a lot like you do about a lot of things. That is because you were both raised with the same morals and beliefs. Do not mistake sexual desire with love. If you are just looking to satisfy your sex drive, DO NOT GET EMOTIONALLY ATTACHED. If you feel this is a person you would like to spend the rest of your life with….WHAT’S THE RUSH????
All I am saying is…Take things slow if you are looking for love. In my opinion, it takes time, patience, and humor. I believe if you look honestly into why you want to have sex, you will make the right decision….In my book, it’s sex with love. That takes nurturing. That takes time……

Believe in Yourself,

Luisa